International Men’s Day

On 19 November, International Men’s Day celebrates the positive value men bring to the world, their families and communities.

The day highlights positive role models and raises awareness of men’s wellbeing. The theme for 2023 is ‘zero male suicide’. Suicide is the leading cause of death in the UK for men aged under 50. If you are struggling with your feelings, and coping in general, please talk to someone.

Support available

There is a local community group called ‘Ascot sheds’ which offers men a chance to chat and socialise with others, while taking part in activities like carpentry, model making or even computing. It is a space to learn and practise skills, share experiences and expertise, and socialise with like-minded people.

Originally aimed at men who had retired and lost social connections, Shed aims to tackle isolation and improve men’s health and wellbeing along the way. If this sounds like it may be your thing, or for a man you know, pop along for a chat and a cuppa.

Earlier this month was Support for Male Victims of Domestic Abuse Day. It is important to remember that Berkshire Women’s Aid, our local domestic abuse support service, offers support to all genders. If you need help, you can call their helpline on 0808 801 0882 or email helpdesk@bwaid.org.uk.

About International Men’s Day

The first time International Men’s Day was celebrated in the UK, was by the University of Kent students in 2008. Though similar events have not avoided controversy, with many highlighting the comparative advantages men have in the workplace over women.

However, others have highlighted some of the challenges men still face, including men accounting for 75% of all suicides in the UK in 2019. The event has evolved and is now seen as a chance to highlight men’s experience, rather than compete with International Women’s Day.

The main aims are:

• ​​​to improve gender relations 
• highlight male role models
• promote positive expressions of masculinity